In the interest of balance, some parents have the opinion that the apron strings should be cut to allow children the freedom to go off and be children. Much like the older generation will have experienced. In the Sunday Morning Herald today there is an article about an American lady with some views that go against much of modern parenting practice. "Lenore Skenazy takes her two sons to the park and leaves them there. They can meet other kids, perhaps even find their own way home. They play outside alone and walk to school unaccompanied.
In her home country she was dubbed America's worst mom after making a controversial decision in 2008 to drop her nine-year-old son in downtown Manhattan to take the subway home alone."
She has started a movement called Free Range Kids, in which she wants parents to teach their children vital social skills and how to be more independent by loosening the reins on their activities. Among her tips, she wants parents to turn off their mobile phones, because children are getting too used to parents making all the decisions on their behalf.
She has attracted plenty of vitriole.
"Her son's subway trip unleashed a flood of responses ranging from accusations of child abuse to fond recollections of getting lost in the bush and embarking on train trips."
Although I don't suppose many parents of young children these days will share her views, those of an older persuasion will hark back to the more carefree days of their youth.
It occurs to me that perhaps child tracking could be a way for parents to allow their offspring the freedom to go off on their own more often, while still feeling a sense of security that they still know where they are. Perhaps, far from bringing about a "big brother" style of surveillance, it could actually bring about more freedom for our children. It's a paradox that I hadn't previously thought about.
The full Sunday Morning Herald article can be found here
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